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November 20, 2008

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You are absolutely right. Even a few of the blogs of folks I respect have rolled out the "let's not point fingers, everybody feels really bad"-line. O.k., fine, lick your wounds but then suck it up and come to the table.

I don't much care for the "hurt feelings" of a few career activists at this point. My beautiful little family was dragged through the mud for six months and nobody stood up for us or allowed us to speak for ourselves. HRC's going to get an earful the next time they call soliciting funds. I don't care what their focus groups said, there are a whole lot of pissed off stroller-pushing gays out there (and quite a few pissed-off and straight grandmas and grandpas).

BTW, the young'uns might have started the web activism, but there's a whole lot of us gay mommies and daddies (and the straight grandfolks too) who are suddenly slaves to Facebook.

You are absolutely right. Even a few of the blogs of folks I respect have rolled out the "let's not point fingers, everybody feels really bad"-line. O.k., fine, lick your wounds but then suck it up and come to the table.

I don't much care for the "hurt feelings" of a few career activists at this point. My beautiful little family was dragged through the mud for six months and nobody stood up for us or allowed us to speak for ourselves. HRC's going to get an earful the next time they call soliciting funds. I don't care what their focus groups said, there are a whole lot of pissed off stroller-pushing gays out there (and quite a few pissed-off and straight grandmas and grandpas).

BTW, the young'uns might have started the web activism, but there's a whole lot of us gay mommies and daddies (and the straight grandfolks too) who are suddenly slaves to Facebook.

It's refreshing to hear someone calling for this kind of leadership -- authentic, truth-telling and accountable. We certainly need it, and now.

I'm doing a series of posts about where the LGBT movement might go next at www.jbf.typepad.com

Torie, thank you for this piece. You're right, of course. I spent days before and after the election with many of our smart young leaders. Their hearts and passion brought back the familiarity of the 30 years I've been at this work.

The missing link was the modeling of responsibility of actions. What they learned - as their hearts broke at the reality - is that organizations were quick to demand their precious little money, energy, and their time but short on even a "thank you."

There indeed needs to be a new paradigm for the LGBT/ ally movement. I believe it lies with our students, our smart new leaders. Yes, we need money to fund anything that's to be done, but the new coalitions need service-centered leadership that's not grounded in giant egos, giant overheads, and lack of consideration for the gifts our youth freely gave on Prop 8.

A new day lies ahead. I look forward with great excitement to what our precious young leaders wil do. In the meantime, we dinosaurs must be here for them for historical context, big tight hugs, hot meals as needed, and a "thank you" for picking up the ball and running with it in a very different direction.

Thank you, Torie, for your years of service and for being willing to always speak truth to power.

Warmly,
Ronni

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